I just posted something I wrote earlier this year. Why now? Because I forgot to post it and things have been pretty hectic since then.
Yes, things have progressed pretty well so far this year.
First of all, I am back at my temping job on a regular basis, although I have still not managed a full six hour shift. I do phone interviewing for the NSW government's Population Health Survey. I've been doing it for 10 years now. It has very flexible hours and the people are great. It's an interesting mix of students, professionals between jobs or in the throws of career change, housewives with small children and grandmothers with various health issues like me. Originally I started to work here when I was working on my never-to-be-completed documentary, just to make sure that I have some income coming in while I spend all my money on research and development and writing a sci-fi screenplay. When the documentary fell through, and the screenplay got only a 2.5 star from a Hollywood reader, I continued 'until I re-establish' my freelance writing business. Well, the proverbial sh...t hit the fan with my first cancer encounter in 2006. I stopped working and the lovely people at NSW Health received me with open arms when I returned a year and a half later. Their support and the knowledge that I can go back any time, has been really helpful in not losing my link to the real world during all my travails. So, I am back. I try to work three 5 hour shifts a week, but I don't always make it, but every bit helps.
And while we are on the job front, I also have a freelance editing assignment, so I think I can safely say that I am back in the saddle as far as work is concerned.
On the health front, I am still madly doing my brain training exercises and I am happy to report that, according to Lumosity, I am in the 99th percentile in brain performance for my age group, so it seems that my brain is back from the chemo fog for good.
On the not too optimistic front, it seems that, while the cancer is improving - meaning that the abnormal level of the cancer marker in the blood is lower - it has not gone back to normal, and my understanding now is that the doctors are not expecting it to go back to normal. I got this not from the Professor, but his stand-in during my last visit, when the Prof was incommunicado due to a knee replacement. I am going to see him in two weeks, when I will double check. In any case, the current prognosis seems to be that the Exemestane is controlling the cancer for now. If it stops doing that, then I will have to have more chemotherapy. And this on and off chemo may be for the rest of my life, which can be anyone's guess how long. As I've said somewhere before, I am told that people live like this for decades. And can I get the abdominal port out please? No! Apparently that can stay in for more than a decade also, and while it was easy to put in, it may be tricky to take out. I'll have to check that one too. Having talked with the new oncologist, I am not sure whether they want me to keep it in because it's complicated to take out, or because they expect me to have more ascites down the line. Neither possibility is very comforting.
In fact, this whole bloody cancer 'journey' (I hate that expression - a journey is a joy, this is a nightmare) is not very comfortable. Unfortunately, it looks like it isn't going away, so a couple of months ago I decided to do some things differently to be able to cope. As a result, I enrolled myself to get help for my post traumatic stress disorder that I had acquired way back when, as a child refugee and other various places. The reason being that I want to clear my head from past garbage to be able to focus on dealing with the cancer in the future. Three weeks ago I started the evaluation process with STARTTS, so I am in the best hands for both my physical and mental health. It's a pretty cool feeling, I must say, and feel I can dance the limbo for as long as it takes (remind me I said this when I start complaining again!)
